Have you ever waited for that special someone, but they seemed so confusing for you to even make sense of their actions? Consider these lines:
- Prolly you have misinterpreted his/her response.
- Have you clarified with his/her definition of "I like you"?
- If so, did they just want to be friends and felt comfortable whenever they are around you?
- Is he/she using intimate words with you?
- What was your response at the early stages?
- Try sit and talk. Give it a try, if he/she refuses, don't push.
- If she/he refuses, it is not the end, convince them that you want to make things work.
- Show them that you care, voice it out.
- I do not know how to make relationships work, but I do know that solving things without the involvement of pride will definitely work.
- If you're very sure that you WANT to be with him/her, try everything that you think might work, regardless of losing pride. JUST for the one you're certain will make you happy.
- For me, sometimes a lady will most appreciate a single thing that a man do even if it seems silly to others.
- Think and act ONLY when you are in a stable state of mind. I am sure good ideas will spring up soon.
- Make them jealous? NO, don't hurt feelings. Think of other ways.
- Sweet thing to do? Don't bother, sincerity is more important. Why do something that you don't even mean it?
- Don't know what to do? You'll figure it out... Be calm and think about it with love.
- I can't be sure what is the best thing for you to do simply because "rambut sama hitam, hati lain lain" (even if we have the same black hair, our tastes are different).
- If you know them well, you'll know what to do, do not rush.
- When you are confiding your problems to your friends, ultimately you are already in an unhealthy state of mind. Talking to someone helps, because they are in a healthy state of mind and they could come up with more ideas than you, better ideas too.
- When you are in an unhealthy state of mind, that is when you become temporarily deaf, blind and dumb.
- How to show sincerity? It can only be defined by the person you dedicate it to. =)
- Sincerity should not be something to be paraded. And sometimes, it is only the person you dedicate it to who will be able to feel it.
- Sincerity is done without telling that you are sincere.
- Never steal their time with their friends. So you made sacrifices? Give and take without too much measurements. Its called mutual respect.
- Stop google-ing for each others' mistakes, no one is perfect.
- Finally, remember, even a doctor needs a doctor. Go figure.
Nada surf-always love.
* I guess she knew i loved her enough to bear with me not telling.
Whatever drawer she is opening right now, i hope it is always sweet.
I fear the lover in me, instincts fearing a loss so huge...
Could never comprehend to measure...
I'll keep it this way, pain seems to get me closer to everyone i know,
and closer to God especially...
Location:Pantai seri kenangan, Tutong, Brunei Darussalam
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